This. I have said some stupid, crass, and offensive shit in my life. I still occasionally do, among friends, in private.
But I also have another role -- I'm an officer of the court, and a representative of my clients. And in THAT capacity, I have certain obligations, my word carries weight. So, I don't say crass and offensive things in that capacity because of my position.
Trump the Game Show Host? He can be as crass and shitty as he wants. I will think he's crass and shitty, but who gives a fuck, he's a game show host. When the GODDAMNED MOTHERFUCKING PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES says this shit, it matters. It matters a lot. Current, former, doesn't matter. There is a REASON you've never heard any other POTUS, in office or out of it, behave that way.....because it so fucking denigrates the office and the country, and is so hideously harmful, that no sane or decent person would behave that way. Trump is a goddamned sociopath. That's bad enough. He's also worshipped as an infallible god by the GQP. That's what is killing and will kill us as a country. We cannot recover when half of our body politic is a festering cancer.