November 6, 20214 yr And this has been said much earlier in the thread and on TOS, but those of you new to parenting (or about to be), expect a huge change in your group of friends. You're going to find that you have much less time to do shit with them, and unless they are co-workers or they make an effort to come around and hang with you, don't be surprised if you get a new circle of friends that have kids the same age as yours. It can be a pain in the ass to go places and do stuff with little ones as it is, and it's just going to make more sense to pick up new friends.
November 6, 20214 yr “What do you mean you can’t sneak out for a 5 hour round of golf and drinking? Wtf brah!!”
November 8, 20214 yr Wife is pregnant with #3, 38 weeks. Her water broke at 1:30 this morning but she told me to go back to bed because no regular contractions. Got the older kids to school and preschool at the normal time, then called the doctor and they told us to head to L&D. So here we are! Much different than first 2 (much more relaxed) and the biggest challenge is making sure older kids are picked up from school so far. Hope it stays this way and #3 comes uneventfully. Waiting to find out if it is a boy or girl until delivery, so I’ll tell you surlyites if you’re an aunt or uncle later.
November 8, 20214 yr 6 minutes ago, hornian said: Her water broke at 1:30 this morning but she told me to go back to bed
November 8, 20214 yr 45 minutes ago, Celery Man said: #3, she knew that we weren’t in active labor yet and she was more worried about me getting kids to school in the morning.
November 8, 20214 yr Congrats and bravo going for 3. We had our second in February and now my wife is like “aye fam when you gettin snipped?”
November 9, 20214 yr 12 hours ago, hornian said: Waiting to find out if it is a boy or girl until delivery, so I’ll tell you surlyites if you’re an aunt or uncle later. It’s a girl; y’all are all aunts! Apparently she shares a birthday with Gordon Ramsey, so when she gets famous she will definitely replace that wanker for “most famous November 8th Birthday.”
November 9, 20214 yr Congrats!Your wife sounds like my mom. When my brother (3rd) was born, we got up to go to school and my dad took us and told us he had to go back home to take mom to the hospital to have the baby.
November 9, 20214 yr On 10/31/2021 at 10:32 AM, Celery Man said: Anyone have recommendations (or avoids) on stair gates? Had to put a couple up this weekend. Cumbor self closing over regalo. Cumbor is easier to open one handed and can bump it to close when through. Great for stairs when you’re carrying stuff and need to keep them from following. And it’s likely to close when left open and they touch the door.
November 9, 20214 yr Popular Post We are heading in for our initial ultrasound tomorrow. Wife is German, so therefore very solid in her record-keeping abilities, so we should be about 8 weeks in.To be precise, the math says that this child would be the result of post-UT-Pig anger fucking, so odds are it will burn with the heat of a million Burnt Orange suns. She took those digital tests that say what date range she is, and she has continued to increase each week over the last month. I am 42 and she is 39, and we weren’t planning on ever having kids, so the last few weeks have been a total recalibration of our perspectives on life. We agreed that this unanticipated development would be our only attempt. We are both very busy with our careers and we are pretty set in our ways, so we agreed this will be our one and only “swing for the fences”. We are ready to totally deconstruct our lives to give this a chance, but we aren’t prepared to pursue it beyond this with things like future attempts, IVF or adoption. That said, I can’t lie…I am excited over the possibility and, of course, a bit anxious, so I really hope this goes well. That said, wish us luck.
November 9, 20214 yr Wait…so you’ve blown it in her just the one night after the Arkansas game and she got knocked up?Congrats slugger, you’re batting 1.000
November 9, 20214 yr 10 hours ago, MNLonghornFUKM said: Wait…so you’ve blown it in her just the one night after the Arkansas game and she got knocked up? Why do you think he was the only one?
November 9, 20214 yr 12 hours ago, Shady Ray said: That said, I can’t lie…I am excited over the possibility and You're going to wish you had done this sooner and you will probably want another kid. It's awesome being a parent. And terrifying. And soul-crushing. And sleep-depriving. But it's also awesome. You get to raise a kid to grow up hating OU and Arkansas for reasons that they will not understand until many years later. And you get to play them lullaby versions of all of your favorite music (trust me, no matter what genre you like, there is a lullaby version of it somewhere on YouTube).
November 10, 20214 yr I’m 41 with a 4.5 and 2.5 year old. I think I want a third, but we started a little late (don’t want to be in my 60s at HS graduation) and just recently got to a place where everyone in the house sleeps 8 hours straight at night. Wife recently decided she is content with two. I agree atomheart that you will probably want a second one after your first kid turns a year old. I’m so thankful for our second.
November 10, 20214 yr 3 hours ago, Murfdogg21 said: I’m 41 with a 4.5 and 2.5 year old. I think I want a third, but we started a little late (don’t want to be in my 60s at HS graduation) My biggest regret. Well, I say that, but if we started earlier, who knows what kind of kids we would have produced - when you get into "well we should have had kids 10 or 15 years ago" you get into the scenario of "they would be different than the kids you have now".. For all of the aggravation, etc., I wouldn't trade them for anything. But for those who haven't had kids yet, the earlier the better I think.
November 10, 20214 yr My biggest regret. Well, I say that, but if we started earlier, who knows what kind of kids we would have produced - when you get into "well we should have had kids 10 or 15 years ago" you get into the scenario of "they would be different than the kids you have now".. For all of the aggravation, etc., I wouldn't trade them for anything. But for those who haven't had kids yet, the earlier the better I think.Yeah I’ve mentioned to my wife a couple of times that I wish we were younger when we had our two. Even then I was 30 and 34 when they were born.
November 10, 20214 yr So, we went in for the scan at the Women’s Hospital here in Munich this morning and some kraut at the door said, “women only…you gotta wait outside. Covid regulations”. So I did. For fucking 2.5 hours…all the while she had absolutely no cell phone service in the hospital. Was a wasteland of communication until I saw her pop out of the front door. Plus…the hospital is literally across the street from one of Munich’s oldest and best neighborhood Bier Gartens, The Taxisgarten, which was closed at the time. And ol’ Shady Ray could have used their hospitality with a 10 AM helles about that time. But all that BS aside and as unfortunate as it was that I didn’t get to experience the first ultrasound (and given our current Covid numbers in Bavaria, I won’t experience any of the others), scan went great. She is exactly as far along as she thought, things are positioned well, and the heartbeat was rockin’, so I am hoping that this old man is going to join your ranks next summer.
November 11, 20214 yr 13 hours ago, Shady Ray said: She is exactly as far along as she thought, things are positioned well, and the heartbeat was rockin’, so I am hoping that this old man is going to join your ranks next summer. Hope so. Sounds cliched, but there's this whole world of awesome stuff you're going to get to do with your kid, and you don't even realize that it exists right now and is going on around you. Stuff that non-parents blow off, like "ohmygosh reading children's books to kids is so boring or sitting through children's cartoons or hanging out with other parents and talking about your kids." My oldest is 9, and he's sailing through the Harry Potter books - I'm reading to him a chapter or so every night, but I know for a fact that he's read a book or two ahead of what I'm reading to him, but he likes me to read to him and I pretend like he hasn't read that far out. He's finally playing board games I'm interested in, doing lots of LEGO stuff that should, in theory, be way too old for him (frustration-level wise), doing some programming stuff, doing crazy-insane stuff with Minecraft, etc., and we are planning to start watching the Marvel movies next month (he hasn't seen a single one and what he knows of Marvel is from the animated shows and the Spiderverse movie). And if it's a girl, it's just as awesome - my daughter is watching all of the cool kids shows that I like (and having been through that with my son, I know which to avoid), and we're reading around 1st- and 2nd-grade books (both our kids seem to running a grade or two ahead, probably thanks to my wife reading to them so much when they were younger) but because I went through that with my son, I now which are the better/funnier ones, and we're doing all kinds of fun games and stuff. Just go ahead and make a note to yourself to avoid Blippi and embrace Bluey, Peppa Pig, and Tumbleleaf. And never, ever let them watch an unboxing video on YouTube. Edit: And you being a man in your 40s, you will love the chance to introduce your child/children to the old Warner Brothers cartoons with Bugs and the rest. I'm talking the old school ones. Kids still love those things. Edited November 11, 20214 yr by atomheartbevo
November 11, 20214 yr I’m 41 with a 4.5 and 2.5 year old. I think I want a third, but we started a little late (don’t want to be in my 60s at HS graduation) and just recently got to a place where everyone in the house sleeps 8 hours straight at night. Wife recently decided she is content with two. I agree atomheart that you will probably want a second one after your first kid turns a year old. I’m so thankful for our second. Yeah, I was 44 for my first and 47 for my 2nd. 52 now. (Got married at 36) Oldest turns 8 on Sunday. I remember picking up my kid at daycare and having other little kids yell, "Your grandpa is here!"Wife is 10 years younger than me. If we had started earlier we would have had more. Took us a bunch of fertility treatments over a couple of years to get the first, then the second was a first try the natural way.I'll be 63 when my oldest graduates high school, and 65 when my youngest graduates. That's what happens when you start late.
November 11, 20214 yr 7 hours ago, Modessit said: I'll be 63 when my oldest graduates high school, and 65 when my youngest graduates. That's what happens when you start late.
November 11, 20214 yr I’m in the opposite camp. We are in the one and done club. My kid is A LOT to handle. I was 33 when he was born. 10 years later and he’s still a lot do handle, but he’s also awesome. He was about three when my wife and I decided that we were happy with the family we had. It was a good decision.
November 11, 20214 yr Now that we are expecting one (same time frame as you, Shady Ray), I imagine we will want to go for two. Before we got pregnant, we frequently discussed having one and adopting one, as my wife is adopted herself. I guess we will we reevaluate as we get further into Round 1. So ready for prenatal visit #2 and getting out of the first trimester.
November 11, 20214 yr 4 hours ago, atomheartbevo said: 11 hours ago, Modessit said: I'll be 63 when my oldest graduates high school, and 65 when my youngest graduates. That's what happens when you start late. I'll be 64 when my twins graduate
November 12, 20214 yr I wasn't ready for kids or being an actual grown up until my 30s, so I really could have only started a year or two earlier and don't have any regrets. I'm 36 and my wife is 29, so we're still in a pretty OK age range for her to have just started and I'm over here being glad that I didn't wait any longer than I did. I should visit a doctor again but I think it's just age that has to do with the... calculations around how much stamina I have in my back for the remainder of what I have to do in a day. It would be tough with a baby if I actually had real problems with mobility or pain. Honestly morbid obesity would be a tough issue as well. I do a lot of baby wearing and a big chunk of my life is spent laying on the ground with the baby. I'm confident we'll go for at least one more, and really the scary thing is just starting over with the newborn stage immediately upon having a 2 year old. I kinda wish we had multiples.
November 12, 20214 yr 4 hours ago, Celery Man said: I wasn't ready for kids or being an actual grown up until my 30s, so I really could have only started a year or two earlier and don't have any regrets. I'm 36 and my wife is 29, so we're still in a pretty OK age range for her to have just started and I'm over here being glad that I didn't wait any longer than I did. I should visit a doctor again but I think it's just age that has to do with the... calculations around how much stamina I have in my back for the remainder of what I have to do in a day. It would be tough with a baby if I actually had real problems with mobility or pain. Honestly morbid obesity would be a tough issue as well. I do a lot of baby wearing and a big chunk of my life is spent laying on the ground with the baby. I'm confident we'll go for at least one more, and really the scary thing is just starting over with the newborn stage immediately upon having a 2 year old. I kinda wish we had multiples. It's gonna happen on round 2, bub. It's science.
November 13, 20214 yr My eldest is 6.5 and I had her at 30. New baby at 36. We are for sure done. Well as soon as I make time to get snipped. Anybody here get a vasectomy? Curious as to what I can expect.
November 13, 20214 yr Stranger will shave your balls. I’ve been talking about getting one and haven’t. On a side effect note, one of my buddies got one and wound up with a hematoma or something like that.
November 15, 20214 yr 1 minute ago, CBT said: I heard they wrap a rubber band around your balls until they fall off. College Station Oysters is a dish served....nowhere but in College Station.
November 19, 20214 yr Today's US at 11 weeks showed everything progressing as it should. It's beginning to feel real now, especially with the baby looking much more baby-like than last month.
November 19, 20214 yr On 11/13/2021 at 4:48 PM, Jkwellborn said: Stranger will shave your balls. I’ve been talking about getting one and haven’t. Not a big deal, I got one after we had the twins. Easy peasy, frozen peazy. about a week to rehab
November 19, 20214 yr Got roped into an Among Us game with my oldest and his friends. Don't play Among Us with 9 and 10 year olds. They think it's hilarious to be a crew mate/good guy and pretend to be a bad guy, etc.
November 20, 20214 yr Got roped into an Among Us game with my oldest and his friends. Don't play Among Us with 9 and 10 year olds. They think it's hilarious to be a crew mate/good guy and pretend to be a bad guy, etc.had no clue what you were referring to. looked it up and was reminded how much i hate video games. i have a 2 yo and a 1 month old and the last video game i owned was sonic the hedgehog on sega genesis.
November 20, 20214 yr 9 minutes ago, patrickdrinksbeer said: had no clue what you were referring to. looked it up and was reminded how much i hate video games. i have a 2 yo and a 1 month old and the last video game i owned was sonic the hedgehog on sega genesis. You'll find out soon enough. My kids play that shit all the time with their cousins. I still don't know what it actually is. But I too had a sega genesis.
November 20, 20214 yr 12 minutes ago, patrickdrinksbeer said: had no clue what you were referring to. looked it up and was reminded how much i hate video games. i have a 2 yo and a 1 month old and the last video game i owned was sonic the hedgehog on sega genesis. Oh just wait. Video games will be your salvation. Or Netflix/PBS Kids/Amazon Prime Kids or whatever on a tablet. When you need that 15 minutes of quiet time or need a short nap, you'll happily hand off the iPad (locked down to a single game or app) to the kids.
November 20, 20214 yr watching the monitor during a "nap", baby sits up for the first timeWait until they start crawling out of the crib. You’ll put them down and go watch tv. Next thing you know, they’ll walk in and scare the shit out of you.
November 20, 20214 yr My 3 YO transitioned to a full bed (with bed rails or whatever)I’ve seen him doing flying elbow drops from the top rope at 3AM some nights. He’s also learned how to pick the tape off of the light thats meant to keep it off at all times, so that’s fun. Your nights may be sleep deprived sometimes, but you still have your freedom
November 22, 20214 yr Trying to help your kid with algebra homework when you're halfway into a bottle of red wine is not easy.
November 22, 20214 yr Wife texted me the other day. Said my youngest told him that he knew Santa was us. Makes me sad, that was the highlight of the holidays. My daughter would get in on the act to help sell it for him too.
November 22, 20214 yr On 11/20/2021 at 9:19 AM, Celery Man said: watching the monitor during a "nap", baby sits up for the first time Your life is over. Might as well accept you fate and just lie down on the couch and watch Bluey all day.
November 22, 20214 yr went and got a 4D sonogram late last week, made it even more real than the realization that we are under 10 weeks haha incredibly excited!!! that said, we need to add a few more (smaller) things to the registry - any additional recommendations?
November 22, 20214 yr 1 hour ago, NoName said: went and got a 4D sonogram late last week, made it even more real than the realization that we are under 10 weeks haha incredibly excited!!! that said, we need to add a few more (smaller) things to the registry - any additional recommendations? https://babyshusher.com We use a Hatch white noise machine for sleep and naps, but honestly this thing is a life saver when trying to just get him to fall asleep or calm down. Works well for taking in the stroller, car, etc too. Also can look into a Rhome portable white noise machine, admittedly much less annoying sounding than the shusher. some attachments for your stroller… we got a little caddy to keep phones/sunglasses/whatever, a portable fan for him, and a cup holder. electric nail filer
November 22, 20214 yr 2 hours ago, Etexhorn13 said: https://babyshusher.com We use a Hatch white noise machine for sleep and naps, but honestly this thing is a life saver when trying to just get him to fall asleep or calm down. Works well for taking in the stroller, car, etc too. Also can look into a Rhome portable white noise machine, admittedly much less annoying sounding than the shusher. some attachments for your stroller… we got a little caddy to keep phones/sunglasses/whatever, a portable fan for him, and a cup holder. electric nail filer TYVM!
November 28, 20214 yr First air travel completed. That could have gone a lot worse. We were camped out at the gate at ABIA for like 2 and a half hours yesterday because security actually wasn't that bad. Three diaper changes because she pooped immediately after I brought her back from her preflight change. The flight down was pretty easy, the flight back up yesterday she didn't want to nap and I ended up having to hold her sideways and sing for half the flight. Tried to stay quiet but I can feel the don't give a fuck dad powers coming on singing taylor swift on an airplane. Speaking of which, jazzed about this sweatshirt that my sister in law made me with her cricut. We've gone heavy on the pandas, H&M had some panda baby stuff and she saw me searching for adult male panda sweatshirts. Now I need to go buy the baby sweater in every larger size. Edited November 28, 20214 yr by Celery Man
November 29, 20214 yr Like any good Texan, I sing my children to sleep with London Homesick Blues. It's about the perfect song to put an unruly child to sleep to. And I have plenty of unruly children to attest to it.
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