March 15Mar 15 6 hours ago, StassneyHorn said: Now anytime I stay over for any amount of time, both of them tell me I need a CPAP cause it’s obvious I have sleep apnea.
March 15Mar 15 9 minutes ago, StassneyHorn said: Sleep apnea and CPAP have been addressed several times in this thread. Teach yourself I just realized your post meant that it took your parents to point out something that nobody else could. Because you have never slept with another person in your entire adult life. That's pathetic. Edited March 15Mar 15 by F250
March 15Mar 15 3 minutes ago, F250 said: I just realized your post meant that it took your parents to point out something that nobody else could. Because you have never slept with another person in entire adult life. That's pathetic. No I’ve been well aware Edited March 15Mar 15 by StassneyHorn
March 15Mar 15 Just now, StassneyHorn said: No I’ve been well aware Well that's what moms do. I guess. Okay, no. That is what significant others do not moms. Jesus, this is sad.
March 15Mar 15 1 minute ago, StassneyHorn said: Jesus dude just buy some pussy and shut the fuck up Everyone here is talking about their wife, girlfriend or ex-wife and you jump in and talk about your mom regarding your sleeping habits. Sad.
March 15Mar 15 It is a thread about married people sleeping in separate rooms. Someone said it’s a sign of impending divorce. I told my parents story. Have you seen posters tell relevant stories before? You lost the exchange and had it reminded to everyone o this board you are a child/young adult predator. Do you want me to tell stories about randos or my baby mama have said? Edited March 15Mar 15 by StassneyHorn
March 15Mar 15 14 minutes ago, StassneyHorn said: It is a thread about married people sleeping in separate rooms. Someone said it’s a sign of impending divorce. I told my parents story. Have you seen posters tell relevant stories before? You lost the exchange and had it reminded to everyone o this board you are a child/young adult predator. Do you want me to tell stories about randos or my baby mama have said? Your only sleep companion is your mother and that is okay, I guess. Please share your mom's thoughts on your snoring.
March 15Mar 15 Flailing. Apologies to OP for thread derail from the drunk divorced guy making assumptions above.
March 15Mar 15 15 minutes ago, StassneyHorn said: Flailing. Apologies to OP for thread derail from the drunk divorced guy making assumptions above. Bro, my original post to you was one of sympathy. I thought it was unfair that your parents judge you for something they also suffer from. I didn't expect you to take that as an offense because as it turns out you are an adult male and only your mom knows how you sleep. Get a cat or something, I guess.
March 15Mar 15 4 hours ago, South Austin said: Well, we found Rocko’s new sock. I'll need to see a LES to confirm.
March 15Mar 15 9 hours ago, F250 said: Bro, my original post to you was one of sympathy. I thought it was unfair that your parents judge you for something they also suffer from. I didn't expect you to take that as an offense because as it turns out you are an adult male and only your mom knows how you sleep. Get a cat or something, I guess. You’re boring.
March 15Mar 15 8 hours ago, South Austin said: Well, we found Rocko’s new sock. That would actually explain a lot of things.
March 16Mar 16 Let's get this thread back on track. Of course we don't sleep in separate rooms, we sleep together in a king bed with our two kids like all normal adults! Right????
March 16Mar 16 On 3/13/2025 at 12:00 AM, Zepol87 said: So you guys bang then say goodnight and go to separate rooms? @South Austin I was thinking about this setup. Do you get to bang and then afterwards hang out solo in a room drinking beer and jumping on the Playstation for some EA Sports College Football? Just curious if there are expectations that you must go to bed afterwards or if you get to do what you want in the separate bedroom.
March 16Mar 16 My wife’s friend has let her 8 year old sleep in her bed 99.9% of his life, and it has caused major problems if she ever has to travel for work or with her friends (can’t be gone more than one night and it’s a major ordeal). Be warned, all ye with adorable toddlers. We have some other friends who allowed a habit to form when their toddler aged kids started sleeping in a real bed, “if they woke up and were scared,” the kids were allowed to come crawl into their bed. Still happens to them 5 or 6 nights a week, any time between 2 and 6am, and the kids are now 7 and 5. They have to bang before midnight like their kids are mogwai.
March 16Mar 16 7 hours ago, F250 said: @South Austin I was thinking about this setup. Do you get to bang and then afterwards hang out solo in a room drinking beer and jumping on the Playstation for some EA Sports College Football? Just curious if there are expectations that you must go to bed afterwards or if you get to do what you want in the separate bedroom. I usually just go to bed. Those two minutes can really wear me out.
March 16Mar 16 Yes. Big time. I have been snoring for a long time as well. I would fall asleep after work just sitting in my recliner. I also noticed I would get tired driving. Now I don't feel the need to nap at all. I was also having acid reflux issues at night. That has also gone away. Yep. I've had a cpap for almost 10 years. Complete game changer. I can't sleep without it.
March 17Mar 17 17 hours ago, South Austin said: I usually just go to bed. Those two minutes can really wear me out. Do you make her sleep on the wet spot, or do you lay a towel down over it like a gentleman?
March 17Mar 17 On 3/16/2025 at 1:09 AM, Murfdogg21 said: My wife’s friend has let her 8 year old sleep in her bed 99.9% of his life, and it has caused major problems if she ever has to travel for work or with her friends (can’t be gone more than one night and it’s a major ordeal). Be warned, all ye with adorable toddlers. We have some other friends who allowed a habit to form when their toddler aged kids started sleeping in a real bed, “if they woke up and were scared,” the kids were allowed to come crawl into their bed. Still happens to them 5 or 6 nights a week, any time between 2 and 6am, and the kids are now 7 and 5. They have to bang before midnight like their kids are mogwai. An 8 year old should be able to handle being left with others for a few nights. Not to mention that it's healthy to create boundaries. Like I wrote earlier I know of one situation of high school kids still sleeping in bed with mom. It's no surprise that Dad finally says enough.
March 17Mar 17 We just took a ferry and slept like this, in the largest cabin available. Neither used the bunk.
March 17Mar 17 Wil be 35 years this July. We've always slept in the same bed with a few exceptions for things such as sicknesses or the couple of times she put me in the guest room after a hard night of partying. But those partying nights are long gone and the last time sickness affected it was covid in 2022.
March 18Mar 18 16 hours ago, Im_smarter_then_you said: Kids after 2 should be sleeping alone. After 2 weeks.
March 20Mar 20 We occasionally will sleep in separate rooms but that is mainly due to work schedules and sleep patterns. Wife works from home and has an international team, so she will sometimes start her workday at 4am. Fuck that. I also like to workout at night and sometimes that means I am up quite late. For the most part though we sleep in the same room but I don’t think there’s any 100% problem either way. It’s just whatever works for your relationships.
March 21Mar 21 8 hours ago, hobbes2702 said: We occasionally will sleep in separate rooms but that is mainly due to work schedules and sleep patterns. Wife works from home and has an international team, so she will sometimes start her workday at 4am. Fuck that. I also like to workout at night and sometimes that means I am up quite late. For the most part though we sleep in the same room but I don’t think there’s any 100% problem either way. It’s just whatever works for your relationships. Same. It happens. We don't take it personally. But we remark about a good-night's-sleep when it all synchs up and we sleep in the same bed, which is most nights. You get used to your humans.
March 21Mar 21 On 3/7/2025 at 9:39 AM, jimmyjazz said: I'd bet good money this is the #1 reason for separate beds. I snore, but we're still in the same bed, 24 years in. My wife does slap me on the forehead now and again, though. IS that when your tongue gets out of rhythm?
March 21Mar 21 But on topic- I snore. And I don't sleep. Like I am up at 5 am, and I can almost never just lay down and fall asleep. Then I wake up to pee.. and I toss and turn. To be honest I fall asleep on the couch half the time and rather than sneak in and wake her up. She REALLY NEEDS her sleep. She's asleep 10 at the very latest and might sleep until 7 if not needed to visit a facility that day. What funny is when we are on vacation we end up being more in the same rhythm, because we are spending every waking moment together, so we sleep fine together. So I guess the answer is Sorta. The problem is more me, in that my body fights sleep and I almost need the TV background noise to fall asleep. She can't stand that. In fact the worst night of sleep I ever got was at 5000 acre ranch in Brady. Because there was almost no background noise, each chirp of a cricket, or owl hoot was like thunder. I can however always fall asleep at the beach. Something about the waves rhythmic repitition. In face some wave video on YouTube has helped me when I was really having a hard time sleeping.
March 21Mar 21 1 hour ago, horn4life said: IS that when your tongue gets out of rhythm? Well, that too. 1 hour ago, horn4life said: In face some wave video on YouTube has helped me when I was really having a hard time sleeping. I use the free Rain Sounds app on my phone. Very low volume and it's definitely kinda white noise adjacent. Tons of different recordings to play, you have to search, some have random thunder or birds chirping, which is not helpful.
March 21Mar 21 7 hours ago, horn4life said: But on topic- I snore. And I don't sleep. Like I am up at 5 am, and I can almost never just lay down and fall asleep. Then I wake up to pee.. and I toss and turn. To be honest I fall asleep on the couch half the time and rather than sneak in and wake her up. She REALLY NEEDS her sleep. She's asleep 10 at the very latest and might sleep until 7 if not needed to visit a facility that day. What funny is when we are on vacation we end up being more in the same rhythm, because we are spending every waking moment together, so we sleep fine together. So I guess the answer is Sorta. The problem is more me, in that my body fights sleep and I almost need the TV background noise to fall asleep. She can't stand that. In fact the worst night of sleep I ever got was at 5000 acre ranch in Brady. Because there was almost no background noise, each chirp of a cricket, or owl hoot was like thunder. I can however always fall asleep at the beach. Something about the waves rhythmic repitition. In face some wave video on YouTube has helped me when I was really having a hard time sleeping. My husband could have written this. I've tried for years to get him to stop falling asleep with the TV. I wasted my time. If you figure it out, let me know.
March 21Mar 21 2 hours ago, tigol said: My husband could have written this. I've tried for years to get him to stop falling asleep with the TV. I wasted my time. If you figure it out, let me know. I can't fall asleep to the flickering light of the TV, but we use our Google Home speaker as a white noise machine. Occasionally, I'll play rain sounds on it. The ocean one wasn't as good, but those things have lots of relaxing sounds programmed. And if you don't like the internet speakers, there's always the gold standard: Marpac mechanical white noise machine. We got a pair of them when our second child was born (so he wouldn't wake up the 3 year old. You can tune them and block out just about everything. Edited March 21Mar 21 by dcbc
March 21Mar 21 8 minutes ago, dcbc said: I can't fall asleep to the flickering light of the TV, but we use our Google Home speaker as a white noise machine. Occasionally, I'll play rain sounds on it. The ocean one wasn't as good, but those things have lots of relaxing sounds programmed. And if you don't like the internet speakers, there's always the gold standard: Marpac mechanical white noise machine. We got a pair of them when our second child was born (so he wouldn't wake up the 3 year old. You can tune them and block out just about everything. Man, I HATE the noise and light of a TV in bed trying to sleep. I can sometimes get to sleep but the infiltration of noise and dialog into my fitful rest is crazy-making. Wife likes it a lot though, but she'll pass and and then fuss at me if I turn it off. Might have to look into some of these things.
March 21Mar 21 3 minutes ago, TwiceHorn said: Man, I HATE the noise and light of a TV in bed trying to sleep. I can sometimes get to sleep but the infiltration of noise and dialog into my fitful rest is crazy-making. Wife likes it a lot though, but she'll pass and and then fuss at me if I turn it off. Might have to look into some of these things. Two things that suck about traveling, likely lack of bidets and white noise machines (my wife had a Marpac app that was discontinued. Not sure if she still does, but I need to sideload it onto my phone for travel.
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