September 27, 20241 yr My lower back is the worst. Freezes up every 1-3 months, and takes a week or two to calm down. Nothing in particular causes it to freeze up, just sitting/standing/bending over, etc. The muscles just freeze up and hurt like hell, then twinge every time I sit or stand or roll over in bed for a week. I’ve been doing various stretches/pilates/core strengthening for over a year, religiously, and go to the chiropractor every time it freezes up. I still have this damn issue. And it sucks. I can’t do any regular work around or outside the house.
September 27, 20241 yr 12 minutes ago, nnm said: go to the chiropractor every time it freezes up There is your problem. Go see a real doctor.
September 28, 20241 yr There is your problem. Go see a real doctor.Dad? Pop didn’t get his feathers ruffled often but whenever anyone referred to a chiropractor as a Dr I could see his face start to twitch. He ran base hospitals in the AF and had zero respect for chiros.
September 28, 20241 yr Pop wasn't that far off. Chiros have their place, but their place is limited. However, immediately after your back 'goes out' is one of those places. On the other hand, as a regular maintenance for control of pretty much anything is not, but way too many of them will tell you that can help with cancer, autism, you name it.
September 28, 20241 yr 13 hours ago, Armybrat said: Minor surgery by her podiatrist corrected that bending fairly well. But now she can't wear her sexy shoes for you.
September 28, 20241 yr 7 minutes ago, SurlyGator said: Pop wasn't that far off. Chiros have their place, but their place is limited. However, immediately after your back 'goes out' is one of those places. On the other hand, as a regular maintenance for control of pretty much anything is not, but way too many of them will tell you that can help with cancer, autism, you name it. Agreed.
September 28, 20241 yr On 9/24/2024 at 10:27 PM, MissingInAction said: Turned 50. I'm single without kids. Suffering from severe sleep apnea so who knows how long I have. I've got a CPAP and undergoing therapy. My dog may have 3 good years left. I'm thinking about cashing out and hitting the road. Sitting around feels like I'm already dead. Take up yoga. I started when I was 41, and by my 50’s, I was an instructor and in the best shape since I was college. Its the best exercise there is. Stress relief, physical symmetry, skeletal alignment, cardio (astanga yoga). My yoga friends are my best friends. Not even close. Ptins, age 52. In the group photo, I’m the one w/ the ‘stache.
September 28, 20241 yr On 9/25/2024 at 10:43 AM, MissingInAction said: Great advice. I think it's the being alone part that's starting to get to me. I am VERY careful getting out of the shower because I know if I fall I'm fucked. I put my phone on the floor just in case. Buy a couple of the 20 dollar alexa devices and set them up around your house. If something bad happens, you can yell "Hey alexa, call 911" or whatever. I did this for my MIL. As to the alone part, plenty of nice women are in the same boat. Join some groups, take some classes, volunteer, whatever. Meet people in your age range.
September 28, 20241 yr 1 hour ago, Gil Bang said: Buy a couple of the 20 dollar alexa devices and set them up around your house. If something bad happens, you can yell "Hey alexa, call 911" or whatever. I did this for my MIL. As to the alone part, plenty of nice women are in the same boat. Join some groups, take some classes, volunteer, whatever. Meet people in your age range. Hey Alexa, Meow like a cat Hey Alexa, I think I have Dogjaw, do you hear it? Hey Alexa, have you seen bofa?
September 28, 20241 yr On 9/24/2024 at 10:27 PM, MissingInAction said: Turned 50. I'm single without kids. Suffering from severe sleep apnea so who knows how long I have. I've got a CPAP and undergoing therapy. My dog may have 3 good years left. I'm thinking about cashing out and hitting the road. Sitting around feels like I'm already dead. You’re not alone in the broader sense. Older men have a greater sense of isolation. https://www.washingtonpost.com/wellness/2024/09/28/men-loneliness-friendship-depression/ Some decent suggestions in that article. Explore your faith—a significant community can be found at church if you’re the church-going type or consider it. If not, volunteer somewhere that you will go regularly, and see the same people every time. Look for an affinity organization—hobby-based, activity-based, etc. The key is to regularly see the same people, to develop a sense of connectedness and community.
September 28, 20241 yr You’re not alone in the broader sense. Older men have a greater sense of isolation. https://www.washingtonpost.com/wellness/2024/09/28/men-loneliness-friendship-depression/ Some decent suggestions in that article. Explore your faith—a significant community can be found at church if you’re the church-going type or consider it. If not, volunteer somewhere that you will go regularly, and see the same people every time. Look for an affinity organization—hobby-based, activity-based, etc. The key is to regularly see the same people, to develop a sense of connectedness and community. You failed to consider the MIA is a socially awkward misanthropic atheist asshole. And that’s on his GOOD days.He’d be better off just ordering a mail-order Filipino bride or some such.
September 28, 20241 yr 12 minutes ago, Brisketexan said: You failed to consider the MIA is a socially awkward misanthropic atheist asshole. And that’s on his GOOD days. He’d be better off just ordering a mail-order Filipino bride or some such. You can do that?
September 28, 20241 yr 41 minutes ago, Brisketexan said: You failed to consider the MIA is a socially awkward misanthropic atheist asshole. And that’s on his GOOD days. He’d be better off just ordering a mail-order Filipino bride or some such. Exactly what my therapist said.
September 28, 20241 yr How in the hell do I have bruised hip from not doing shit?! I'm in hella pain from.... Sitting.
September 28, 20241 yr 12 hours ago, PTINS said: Take up yoga. I started when I was 41, and by my 50’s, I was an instructor and in the best shape since I was college. Its the best exercise there is. Stress relief, physical symmetry, skeletal alignment, cardio (astanga yoga). My yoga friends are my best friends. Not even close. Ptins, age 52. In the group photo, I’m the one w/ the ‘stache.
September 28, 20241 yr 5 minutes ago, DaysOff said: I'm sore from mowing and trimming yesterday. Should’ve waxed.
September 28, 20241 yr 14 hours ago, Gil Bang said: Buy a couple of the 20 dollar alexa devices and set them up around your house. If something bad happens, you can yell "Hey alexa, call 911" or whatever. I did this for my MIL. As to the alone part, plenty of nice women are in the same boat. Join some groups, take some classes, volunteer, whatever. Meet people in your age range. Become a yoga instructor. (See photo above.)
September 30, 20241 yr Buddy of mine was at his family lake house in upstate New York where he grew up. He was swimming around the lake and stopped by the dock a few doors down where several late teenage girls were sunbathing. He asked which one was a “Smith” and one raised her hand. He said “hey, I grew up with your mother Pat”. To which she replied “Pat is my grandmother.” /csb.
September 30, 20241 yr 13 minutes ago, CycleTex87 said: Buddy of mine was at his family lake house in upstate New York where he grew up. He was swimming around the lake and stopped by the dock a few doors down where several late teenage girls were sunbathing. He asked which one was a “Smith” and one raised her hand. He said “hey, I grew up with your mother Pat”. To which she replied “Pat is my grandmother.” /csb. "Well I might be your grandfather." /ActualCSB
October 1, 20241 yr You failed to consider the MIA is a socially awkward misanthropic atheist asshole. And that’s on his GOOD days.He’d be better off just ordering a mail-order Filipino bride or some such.Or he could just bang a bunch of hos
October 1, 20241 yr 9 minutes ago, deter said: 81 3/3/33 what are the odds? Well, I was alive in 4/4/44.
October 2, 20241 yr Whenever I put on the headphones, I hear the crazy tinnitus I have. My fault for being an idiot standing next to the punk / metal speakers when I was younger because I thought I was cool. I got ass, but at what cost?!
October 2, 20241 yr 7 hours ago, deter said: 81 3/3/33 what are the odds? At a certain age, math doesn't matter. My grandmother was around... She passed last year at 93. Edited October 2, 20241 yr by Slacks
October 2, 20241 yr My mom has run the cycle 3/3/33 4/4/44 5/5/55 6/6/66 7/7/77 8/8/88 9/9/99 10/10/10 11/11/11 12/12/12 1/1/1 2/2/22
October 2, 20241 yr On 9/27/2024 at 9:39 PM, Gil Bang said: Buy a couple of the 20 dollar alexa devices and set them up around your house. If something bad happens, you can yell "Hey alexa, call 911" or whatever. I did this for my MIL. As to the alone part, plenty of nice women are in the same boat. Join some groups, take some classes, volunteer, whatever. Meet people in your age range. yeah but alexa listens and it's 5G so unless you have a 5G protective necklace you're screwed either way.
October 2, 20241 yr I got ass, but at what cost?!Doesn’t matter the cost. You were going to something going wrong at this point no matter what. Might as well have gotten some ass.
October 2, 20241 yr 8 minutes ago, tbone_ said: Doesn’t matter the cost. You were going to something going wrong at this point no matter what. Might as well have gotten some ass.
October 2, 20241 yr Popular Post My mom has run the cycle 3/3/33 4/4/44 5/5/55 6/6/66 7/7/77 8/8/88 9/9/99 10/10/10 11/11/11 12/12/12 1/1/1 2/2/22Dad has too but sadly, as we sit with him here at the hospital, the next 36hrs may be his last. Thanks for posting that.
October 2, 20241 yr 14 hours ago, jetsfan76 said: Whenever I put on the headphones, I hear the crazy tinnitus I have. My fault for being an idiot standing next to the punk / metal speakers when I was younger because I thought I was cool. I got ass, but at what cost?! 1 hour ago, tbone_ said: Doesn’t matter the cost. You were going to something going wrong at this point no matter what. Might as well have gotten some ass. Yep. Those memories are priceless.
October 2, 20241 yr 1 hour ago, Gil Bang said: Yep. Those memories are priceless. Speaking of, going to Pennywise tonight at Mohawk to make the ringing worse. I got concussion #3 when I saw them in '94, hope there's no repeat of that!
October 2, 20241 yr On 9/27/2024 at 9:38 PM, PTINS said: Take up yoga. I started when I was 41, and by my 50’s, I was an instructor and in the best shape since I was college. Its the best exercise there is. Stress relief, physical symmetry, skeletal alignment, cardio (astanga yoga). My yoga friends are my best friends. Not even close. Ptins, age 52. In the group photo, I’m the one w/ the ‘stache. Is that your harem? Are you building a compound somewhere?? It's like if Hef had girlfriends his own age. Well done!
October 2, 20241 yr On 9/27/2024 at 9:38 PM, PTINS said: since everyone in this thread is too old apparently... x,x,1,3,x,x,x,x,x,eh,x,2
October 2, 20241 yr 1 minute ago, sidis said: since everyone in this thread is too old apparently... x,x,1,3,x,x,x,x,x,eh,x,2 The homely bitch in red is the only one that I wouldn't accept.
October 4, 20241 yr When you're old and forget so ypu climb a ladder with a rigged up chain saw , thinking it's a good idea, when the tree branch falls knocks the ladder out from under you and you're not as young as you used to be this shit happens. If anyone else follows me on Facebook you know the incident from about 6 weeks ago with the hubby , aka big man child. This is his left shoulder.
October 4, 20241 yr Anyone have experience with Rogaine? I'm 39 and had a completely full head of hair until maybe a month or two ago. At my last haircut (early September) my barber confirmed it was starting to thin on top. I still appear to have a full head, and want to keep it that way if possible. Just ordered a shot of Rogaine and curious if I completely wasted $ or not.
October 4, 20241 yr 2 hours ago, Al_4_ISU said: Anyone have experience with Rogaine? I'm 39 and had a completely full head of hair until maybe a month or two ago. At my last haircut (early September) my barber confirmed it was starting to thin on top. I still appear to have a full head, and want to keep it that way if possible. Just ordered a shot of Rogaine and curious if I completely wasted $ or not.
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