May 24, 20196 yr Is this frowned upon? I started dating this 18 year old Mexican chick and things have been going great so far. I've just been put off by the age difference. It makes me feel like a creeper and I feel guilty at times. But she's pretty awesome and mature for her age. Her family and I get along well. Also another thing, she doesn't have papers. (Yes she speaks English) Sooooo... how do I go about this? Call it off? Keep things moving and see where we stand in a few years? If we happen to want to get married is a marriage license even possible? Sorry I'm just in a confused state right now and am probably overthinking this.
May 24, 20196 yr You shouldn't feel like a creeper at all, until you post the pics required. That will help us understand the situation better.
May 24, 20196 yr My wife is almost 14 years younger than I. She was 27 when we met. Then I met her parents, who are both 7 years older than I am. And I met them at her brother's HS graduation. Carry on.
May 24, 20196 yr 29 minutes ago, Jersey Man10 said: she doesn't have papers. Well why know why she is in the relstionship. Found her an easy target.
May 24, 20196 yr Well why know why she is in the relstionship. Found her an easy target.Spoken like a true foreigner
May 24, 20196 yr 36 minutes ago, Jersey Man10 said: If we happen to want to get married is a marriage license even possible? Yeah, I think interracial marriage has been fine for awhile.
May 24, 20196 yr Be careful. White guys just have to walk by young Mexican girls and they're bred. Also, get a mouth swab and have her checked for the highly likely tortilla gene.
May 24, 20196 yr so what you need to understand here is the frontal lobe development thing link here: https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/encyclopedia/content.aspx?ContentTypeID=1&ContentID=3051 tl;dr: you are on opposite sides of the "adult capacity for reason" line Also, meet her mother. That's roughly what she's going to look like in 5-10 years. If Mom is hot, go for the girl. On the other hand, maybe just go for mom instead; you'll have more to talk about.
May 24, 20196 yr I'd like to help, but your photos aren't showing up! if you don't really know what to do then that means you are just distracted by her tits (& pussy) or you are very immature. If you think it could be a serious relationship then treat it like that, if it is just a fun ride then have fun and get off the ride when it's over.
May 24, 20196 yr The Papers thing. You have to account for the fact she could be deported. I must confess I don't know how the process works now even if eventually you did marry if that allows her automatic residency or if that is not a sure thing anymore? I mean you hear news reports of spouses being separated with one having to go back to their home country because of one reason or another. The age deference? Meh. If she is more mature than the average 18 year old and you feel it's sincere and not an act, then keep at it. I mean decades ago like WWII and before it was not uncommon to have such a spread between ages and usually it was the guy that was older. I mean you had men who were maybe 20 who were marrying 15, 16 year olds and I'm sure many men who were in the upper 20's hooked up with 18, 19 year olds. And in Latin America is not uncommon even today. That was the whole meaning behind the quinceanera was to present the young girl to community as ready for woman hood ( IE marriage).
May 24, 20196 yr Is it frowned upon? Come on, dude, you know the answer to that? In today's climate of course it is. You know that. But, imo, it depends on you. Should it be frowned upon in your particular case? Maybe, maybe not. I hope not. Be a mensch about it and there's no reason for it to be frowned upon. Just my two cents.
May 24, 20196 yr If it was wrong it’d be illegal. Assuming you live in Texas you’re actually clear by a year. Have at it.
May 24, 20196 yr 1 minute ago, Helobious said: If it was wrong it’d be illegal. Lol. I will be polite and suggest that you reconsider your post.
May 24, 20196 yr 28 minutes ago, Nueces River Rat said: You have to account for the fact she could be deported. You can always use this as an out if things go shitty. Beats divorce court.
May 24, 20196 yr 1 minute ago, Cheeseweasel said: You can always use this as an out if things go shitty. Beats divorce court. Very true.
May 24, 20196 yr 1 hour ago, Jersey Man10 said: Is this frowned upon? I started dating this 18 year old Mexican chick and things have been going great so far. I've just been put off by the age difference. It makes me feel like a creeper and I feel guilty at times. But she's pretty awesome and mature for her age. Her family and I get along well. Also another thing, she doesn't have papers. (Yes she speaks English) Sooooo... how do I go about this? Call it off? Keep things moving and see where we stand in a few years? If we happen to want to get married is a marriage license even possible? 1. She is a Real Mexican Female, and you are a Dude Asking for Advice on the Internet, so the 18 and 27 adjust to about the same age. Hell, she's probably the older of you two. Don't take it personally, it's a fact, it's a hot wind on your shoulder, blowing in from a world that is older. The family either accepts you because they see you as a harmless fling, or else they see you as a future husband. One way or the other. Are you white? They want White Mexican grandchildren just like they see on Televisa. 2. Well, she says she doesn't have papers. She might have a stack of Mexican papers like arrest records, marriage certificate, or a birth certificate that says she is 25. Or 15! 3. Assuming she is not actually 15, you ride this wild pony like you stole it. You can certainly get married, in Mexico. It will be a good opportunity to visit her Mom's hometown, which will one day be your hometown once that thing in the Mexican woman's head clicks, and like all her ancestors, she decides that you, she, and all your offspring must return to the matrilocal Eden. This may be some really nice place. It may be a village at the end of 4 hours of jeep-road.
May 24, 20196 yr 1 hour ago, Rimbo said: Also, meet her mother. That's roughly what she's going to look like in 5-10 years. If Mom is hot, go for the girl. On the other hand, maybe just go for mom instead; you'll have more to talk about.
May 24, 20196 yr 45 minutes ago, Nueces River Rat said: The Papers thing. You have to account for the fact she could be deported. I must confess I don't know how the process works now even if eventually you did marry if that allows her automatic residency or if that is not a sure thing anymore? I mean you hear news reports of spouses being separated with one having to go back to their home country because of one reason or another. The age deference? Meh. If she is more mature than the average 18 year old and you feel it's sincere and not an act, then keep at it. I mean decades ago like WWII and before it was not uncommon to have such a spread between ages and usually it was the guy that was older. I mean you had men who were maybe 20 who were marrying 15, 16 year olds and I'm sure many men who were in the upper 20's hooked up with 18, 19 year olds. And in Latin America is not uncommon even today. That was the whole meaning behind the quinceanera was to present the young girl to community as ready for woman hood ( IE marriage). gf's cousin had this happen and now her husband isn't allowed to enter the US for so many years so they live in Acuna and she commutes to work in Del Rio everyday. I'm sure that's fun. Edited May 24, 20196 yr by SimonBolivar
May 24, 20196 yr 2 hours ago, elfenix said: violates half + 7. good work, cradle robber. Does this formula have any modifiers for variables like 1) she’s good with anal, or 2) she has family connections to unlimited blow?
May 24, 20196 yr 4 minutes ago, SimonBolivar said: gf's cousin had this happen and now her husband isn't allowed to enter the US for so many years so they live in Acuna and she commutes to work in Del Rio everyday. I'm sure that's fun. Acuna's fine so long as you stay on the good side of Azul.
May 24, 20196 yr gf's cousin had this happen and now her husband isn't allowed to enter the US for so many years so they live in Acuna and she commutes to work in Del Rio everyday. I'm sure that's fun.My family still does this in EP
May 24, 20196 yr 10 minutes ago, RDCanecutter said: Acuna's fine so long as you stay on the good side of Azul. Doesn't bother me any as abuelita brings back the good cacahuates, pepitas, and yerbaniz a few times a year.
May 24, 20196 yr 10 minutes ago, Zepol87 said: My family still does this in EP I can't imagine what the wait is everyday at that crossing.
May 24, 20196 yr Well I'm 45 and my fiance is 28, what do I win?The right to give her half your shit in a couple of years. And LOL, I can’t imagine anyone other than Jerseyman10 making the OP.
May 24, 20196 yr 12 minutes ago, Fico said: The right to give her half your shit in a couple of years. And LOL, I can’t imagine anyone other than Jerseyman10 making the OP. She is hot enough that I'm willing to take that risk
May 24, 20196 yr Let's see. It's Jersey Man. He's dating an 18 year old. And she doesn't have papers. He's getting played for a green card.
May 24, 20196 yr 43 minutes ago, Zepol87 said: Thread on the old site. Sorry man, I'm not wading thru 5 miles of shit to get there.
May 24, 20196 yr 11 minutes ago, Cheeseweasel said: Sorry man, I'm not wading thru 5 miles of shit to get there. And you wouldn’t come out clean on the other side
May 24, 20196 yr Author Are you white? They want White Mexican grandchildren just like they see on Televisa.Nah I'm Mexican too.Have you smashed yet? Does she care about that thing on your face?Oh I got rid of that thing like 6 months ago. Lots of that wart killer stuff and freezing it made it eventually go away. Haven't smashed yet.
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