We're not making extra payments on the mortgage. We had a 15 year, my wife has never really worked since we had the kids, she has a part time job now and makes about $7000 a year. After all the potluck lunches and chipping in for gift baskets and other woman bullshit at her job, she brings home a lot less.
She wants to make sure she has a house free and clear when I'm dead in the next 20 years.
Yeah, we kept throwing money at my son from College days to drug lawyers, to DUI lawyers... he's 30 now and will be a guest of the state of Oklahoma for a while.
Due to family circumstances we got ourselves into about 90K in CC debt. I have a good job, have 500K in a 401K, equity in our home at 250K. I've been making payments on everything for a while, with interest rates high, cashflow has become an issue. My wife is hell bent on getting the house paid off, so she doesn't want me to refi the first. We have 24 months left to get it paid off.
Any suggestions?
Yeah, she is a badass through fighting for sheer survival, but she was very young when Roy got her and I think she still has some naiveté. Still makes dumb mistakes/decisions.
wait.. a rowing crew from seattle washington in 1936 was white? 🙄
They did manage to shoehorn a little diversity to try to placate queefs like you. Cheers!